Come as you are, but dont stay as you came.

Sooo it's been awhile but your girl Mahogany is back! Been a little under the weather. I know y'all are waiting to hear some extravagant dream that I had but I'm going to change it up. During this down time that I've had I've realized some things: I have been using my previous heart break as an excuse for me to act careless,out of character and been settling for less. So don't let my whimsical and soft dreams take me as a fool, I actually am pretty intelligent. However, LADIES!! DO NOT let a heartbreak or bad relationship determine your future. I'm a firm believer in "Things happen and things happen for a reason". I know it's very difficult to try again after a tremendous fall. But what would you rather do? Stay on the bottom of the ladder or gradually reach up the top where the pot of gold is? YES, there are many WONDERFUL men still out there. "N***** ain't nothing/ All men are dogs" is NOT the attitude to have.

 Trust me, you look ignorant and bitter running around chanting that. OK, let me break it down better for the slow ones that still don't understand :)    14,376,299 people in DMV- Lil RayQuan, + Justin + Olutunde+ Bobby= 14,376,295. So whoever dates all the men (or women, whichever you prefer) in this equation, will then have the right to say ALL MEN ARE DOGS :) If you truly are a wonderful women, stay that way! Don't let the next man suffer because the Lil RayQuan/Justin/Olutunde/Bobby's that were in our life took advantage of it! Why should next man be punished for trying heal our wounds? I'm not really a fan of the saying " Good things come to those who wait",  I believe more in "Good things come to those who have faith".  OK, so let me share 1 of my rules with y'all. Its called the All or Nothing Rule  pretty much its self explanatory. If a man will not give you his all, Ladies we need to chuck up them deuces up. We should not give all this fabulosity to a person who does not appreciate it. I have soo much loving to give, and unlike many other females where men have to fight with them to get that type of love, I'm here ready to give it. The most painful thing I've experienced is where I have so much to offer but the person I want to give it to does not want it. But guess what?!?! After I finished getting in my feelings, I've decided since you do not want it do me a favor. Go to the post office, ask for some stamps and a box and return to sender!
p.s Make sure in the signature line you sign MR. I AM MISSING OUT.